The Core Ideas Behind Remake The Rules

Reclaim Decision Making in a World of Choicetech, Overload, and Influence

Remake The Rules Is for People Who:

  • Feel overwhelmed by too much information but still struggle to make confident decisions

  • Want to use technology strategically, without feeling manipulated or burned out

  • Are navigating high-stakes choices and want a system that works in the real world

If you’ve ever felt like your decisions are shaped more by algorithms, expectations, or decision fatigue than by your own intentions, you’re not imagining it.

Remake The Rules exists to help you take back your decision-making power by developing systems that are thoughtful, human-centered, and grounded in real-world complexity.

Foundational Principles

At its core, Remake The Rules is about reimagining how we connect, decide, and lead in an era dominated by digital systems and information.

Below are the guiding principles that shape everything I do:

  • Decision-making isn’t just cognitive, it’s relational.
    Behind every choice is a desire for something meaningful: connection, alignment, growth.

    Remake The Rules is committed to amplifying the human element in a world that often feels tech-first. That means every tool, strategy, or system we use should deepen—not replace—our ability to relate, communicate, and connect.

  • Communication isn’t separate from decision-making, it is decision-making. Every app, workflow, or platform you use is an information system designed to deliver a message and prompt a response.

    I help you make those systems speak more clearly, whether you're collaborating with a team, vetting a new hire, or exploring compatibility on a dating app. When communication is intentional, your systems become strategic.

  • Choicetech shouldn’t lead, you should.
    Technology should work for people, not around them or against them.

    I help you recenter yourself in your own decision systems so you’re not blindly following design defaults, engagement metrics, or outdated workflows. Instead, you’ll learn to use tools in a way that reflects your values, priorities, and real-life context.

  • You don’t need to be a data scientist to navigate information overload. But you do need a better process.

    Remake The Rules teaches you to see patterns, filter options, and evaluate what matters so you can move from confusion to clarity without getting stuck in analysis paralysis.

    This is how we counteract choice inflation, not by simplifying your world, but by upgrading your ability to move through it with confidence.

  • Most of the platforms you use every day weren’t designed with your long-term decision-making in mind. That doesn’t mean they’re useless, it just means they need rethinking.

    Whether it’s a dating app, a CRM, or a hiring dashboard, I help you apply decision science, system design, and critical evaluation so your tech becomes a powerful support tool.

  • The decisions you make with choicetech shape everything: who you date, how you lead, what you build. But most people are making those choices with outdated methods in overwhelmed environments.

    Remake The Rules helps you:

    • Reframe uncertainty as something you can navigate

    • Build systems that help you decide strategically

    • Move forward with grounded confidence, not just vibes, trends, or urgency

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Let’s talk about where you are, what’s not working, and how to rethink your decision making for the modern information age.

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Is This For You? – See if this kind of decision and system-level work is what you’ve been looking for.

What Is Choicetech? – Understand the systems shaping your decisions and how to collaborate with them instead of getting stuck in them.

What Is Choice Inflation? – Learn how modern systems turn choice and information into cognitive labor and what to do about it.

Dating Decision-Making – Explore how choicetech affects romantic decisions and what you can do differently.

Business & Leadership – For entrepreneurs and leaders ready to rethink overwhelm, systems, and sustainable growth.

Working Together – Get a sense of what it’s like to collaborate, whether we’re strategizing your choices or redesigning your systems.

The ROAR Framework – My signature decision-making framework for navigating complexity and making aligned choices.

Foundational Principles – The beliefs that ground my work in autonomy and intentionality.

Ethics and Advocacy – How I approach power, privacy, accessibility, and justice in a digital world.

Meet Emily – Learn more about who I am, why this work matters to me, and what I bring to the table.