About Remake The Rules
Where modern decision-making meets modern life.
Led by Emily Pabst, ChoiceTech Consultant and Coach
We live in a time of choice inflation.
More decisions. More input. More pressure to “get it right.”
From swiping on dating apps to running a business, we’re constantly navigating tools and systems that claim to make life easier—but often leave us overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck.
That’s where choicetech comes in.
When I say choicetech, I mean the technologies, platforms, and decision structures that shape how we choose—often invisibly. These systems influence our relationships, our time, our attention, and our sense of possibility.
Whether you’re navigating love, leadership, or the mental load of daily life, I help you realign how you engage with choicetech so it works for you—not against you.
I work with people who are ready to rethink:
How they make decisions (and why it feels so hard now)
The role of technology in their dating lives, businesses, or leadership
Patterns that used to work—but don’t anymore
What it means to act with intention in a system built for distraction
This work is for individuals, founders, creatives, and leaders who know the world has changed—and want to change with it, on their own terms.
Curious about what this could look like for you?
Choose your starting point:
What Is ChoiceTech? – Understand the systems shaping your decisions—and how to collaborate with them instead of getting stuck in them.
Is This For You? – See if this kind of decision and system-level work is what you’ve been looking for.
Dating Decision-Making – Explore how choicetech and modern culture affect romantic decisions—and what you can do differently.
Business & Leadership – For entrepreneurs and leaders ready to rethink overwhelm, systems, and sustainable growth.
Working Together – Get a sense of what it’s like to collaborate—whether we’re strategizing your choices or redesigning your systems.
The ROAR Framework – My signature decision-making framework for navigating complexity and making aligned choices.
Foundational Principles – The beliefs that ground my work in anti-capitalism, autonomy, and intentionality.
Ethics and Advocacy – How I approach power, privacy, accessibility, and justice in a digital world.
Meet Emily – Learn more about who I am, why this work matters to me, and what I bring to the table.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
Let’s talk about where you are, what’s not working, and how to rethink your decision-making for the modern information age.
Ready to dive deeper?
Start with the page that speaks most to your situation—or schedule a discovery call and let’s talk.