Together We R-O-A-R!

A Step-by-Step Framework for Confident Decisions in a Choicetech World

Reflect, Observe, Assess, Realign

At Remake The Rules, growth isn’t static, it’s dynamic, iterative, and responsive to real-life complexity.

The ROAR Framework is a structured yet adaptable approach to decision-making that helps you cut through noise, spot patterns, and respond with intention. Whether you’re navigating dating apps, business systems, or high-stakes choices, ROAR gives you a repeatable method to process overwhelm and move forward with confidence.

This isn’t about finding the “right” answer, it’s about developing a sustainable way to make choices in a world shaped by choicetech and choice inflation.

Why ROAR?

Modern decision-making has never been more difficult:

  • Information Overload – Too many choices, too much data, and no clear way to sort signal from noise

  • External Pressures – Social norms, algorithms, and outdated expectations shape your options before you even realize it

  • Fear of Regret – Worry that you’ll make the “wrong” decision and stay stuck in second-guessing

The ROAR process is your antidote.
It’s how we shift from reactive, anxiety-fueled spirals to grounded, actionable steps that actually work.

How ROAR Works

  • We start by diving deep into your current situation. Together, we’ll reflect on the broader picture—your challenges, goals, and how you currently use information tools. This helps us understand your context and identify where to focus for maximum impact.

  • With clarity on your goals, we’ll observe how you and your information systems interact. By thinking like a data scientist (no math needed!), we’ll uncover how these systems influence your decision-making and where the opportunities lie.

  • After reflecting and observing, we evaluate what's working and what needs adjustment. We identify the gaps, refine your strategies, and determine the best actions to align with your goals.

  • With a clear plan, we’ll put our adjustments into practice, shifting from information-scarcity thinking to big-data living. We’ll continuously fine-tune your approach to ensure it remains aligned with your evolving needs.

And Repeat → Continuously Evolve and Improve:

ROAR isn’t a one-time solution. It’s a cycle you can return to as your goals, tools, and challenges evolve. This continuous improvement model helps you build resilience, skill, and adaptability for the long haul.

This isn’t about making the “right” choice, it’s about building a sustainable way to make decisions that work for you.

Why It Works

ROAR helps you:

  • Break complex problems into manageable steps

  • Slow down reactive patterns driven by digital environments

  • Make space for intention in a fast-paced, over-optimized world

  • Reclaim your ability to decide with confidence, even in uncertainty

This is the foundation of all the work we do at Remake The Rules. Whether you’re making decisions about dating, leadership, hiring, or life transitions, ROAR is how we turn overwhelm into opportunity.

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Let’s talk about where you are, what’s not working, and how to rethink your decision-making for the modern information age.

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Working Together – Get a sense of what it’s like to collaborate, whether we’re strategizing your choices or redesigning your systems.

The ROAR Framework – My signature decision-making framework for navigating complexity and making aligned choices.

Foundational Principles – The beliefs that ground my work in autonomy and intentionality.

Ethics and Advocacy – How I approach power, privacy, accessibility, and justice in a digital world.

Meet Emily – Learn more about who I am, why this work matters to me, and what I bring to the table.