Ethics & Advocacy
Centering Empowerment, Inclusion, and Integrity in Every Decision
A Commitment to Ethical Decision-Making & Client Support
At Remake The Rules, ethical decision-making isn’t an afterthought. In a world shaped by choicetech, it's more important than ever that the way we make decisions centers well-being, integrity, and long-term impact.
I believe that systems should serve people, not manipulate them, and that decision-making should be a tool for empowerment, not control.
This commitment shapes every part of how I work:
✔ Transparent structure
✔ Pro-client support
✔ Systemic awareness
✔ Clear boundaries around power and influence
Full Advocacy for My Clients
When we work together, I show up as a strategic partner and active advocate for your success. That means:
No hard-sell tactics – You’ll never be pressured into services you don’t want, understand, or need
No gatekeeping knowledge – Everything I do is about equipping you, not making you dependent
No one-size-fits-all solutions – Every strategy is tailored to your actual needs, goals, and decision-making patterns
The goal? That you feel confident, informed, and in control of your own process.
Challenging Restrictive Systems & Advocating for Marginalized Communities
Most decision-making frameworks were created within systems that center dominance, conformity, and assumed access to power. These structures often:
Reinforce outdated and problematic norms
Marginalize alternative lifestyles and non-normative identities
Reward efficiency at the expense of inclusion or nuance
At Remake The Rules, I work to dismantle these defaults by ensuring that the tools and strategies we use are explicitly designed to move forward diverse, dynamic, and liberatory decision-making.
What This Looks Like in Practice:
Unlearning prescriptive norms – You don’t have to date, lead, or build a business the “default” way. We define success on your terms.
Centering ignored voices – Our work actively considers and elevates experiences that mainstream systems often leave out.
Designing inclusive systems – From app audits to hiring processes, we focus on creating ethical infrastructure that empowers instead of excludes.
Ethical & Pro-Social Systems Development
Your decisions don’t exist in a vacuum and neither do your tools. Every tech interface, organizational workflow, and app interaction is part of a decision-making architecture that influences behavior.
I believe in:
Designing systems that empower, not manipulate
Challenging algorithmic structures that push people toward reactive, unexamined choices
Prioritizing transparency, accessibility, and ethical design
Teaching you how to use information tools intentionally, not reactively
Whether you’re navigating dating platforms, business decisions, or leadership systems, we evaluate the impact of the system itself, not just the choices inside it.
Empowerment + Pro-Social Impact
Ethical decision-making is personal and collective.
It’s about you and it’s about everyone your decisions touch.
Remake The Rules operates on the belief that:
Empowerment without integrity isn’t real power
Better choices ripple outward, influencing teams, relationships, and entire industries
Success should feel good: ethically, relationally, and strategically
I help clients build decision strategies that reflect their values, consider the systems they're operating within, and create long-term, sustainable alignment.
A Transparent, Trust-Based Approach
Every client relationship is built on:
Clear expectations
Shared accountability
Honest collaboration
If you’re looking for a way to engage with decision-making that is ethical, inclusive, and actually aligned with how you want to live and lead—you’re in the right place.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
Let’s talk about where you are, what’s not working, and how to rethink your decision-making for the modern information age.
Explore More
Is This For You? – See if this kind of decision and system-level work is what you’ve been looking for.
What Is Choicetech? – Understand the systems shaping your decisions and how to collaborate with them instead of getting stuck in them.
What Is Choice Inflation? – Learn how modern systems turn choice and information into cognitive labor and what to do about it.
Dating Decision-Making – Explore how choicetech affects romantic decisions and what you can do differently.
Business & Leadership – For entrepreneurs and leaders ready to rethink overwhelm, systems, and sustainable growth.
Working Together – Get a sense of what it’s like to collaborate, whether we’re strategizing your choices or redesigning your systems.
The ROAR Framework – My signature decision-making framework for navigating complexity and making aligned choices.
Foundational Principles – The beliefs that ground my work in autonomy and intentionality.
Ethics and Advocacy – How I approach power, privacy, accessibility, and justice in a digital world.
Meet Emily – Learn more about who I am, why this work matters to me, and what I bring to the table.