Ethics & Advocacy

A Commitment to Ethical Decision-Making & Client Support

At Remake The Rules, ethical decision-making isn’t an afterthought—it’s at the core of everything I do. I believe that systems should serve people, not the other way around, and that decision-making should be a tool for empowerment, not control.

This commitment shapes the way I work, ensuring that every client engagement is built on transparency, integrity, and a full investment in your success.

Full Advocacy for My Clients

When we work together, I am fully committed to your success. That means:

  • No hard-sell strategies – You will never be pressured into services you don’t want, understand, or need.

  • No gatekeeping knowledge – My goal is to equip you, not make you dependent on me.

  • No one-size-fits-all solutions – Every engagement is customized to your needs, goals, and decision-making style.

I function as an advocate and strategic partner, ensuring that you feel confident, empowered, and fully supported throughout our work together.

Challenging Restrictive Power Structures & Advocating for Marginalized Communities

Traditional decision-making frameworks are often built within restrictive, exclusionary systems—ones that reinforce outdated norms, limit possibilities, and push marginalized people and alternative lifestyles to the edges. At Remake The Rules, I work to dismantle these barriers by ensuring decision-making is a tool for liberation, not limitation.

What This Means in Practice

  • Breaking free from prescriptive norms – Whether in dating, business, or leadership, you don’t have to follow the “default” path just because it’s expected. We work to unlearn restrictive conditioning and redefine success on your own terms.

  • Centering voices that are often ignored – Many systems are not designed with marginalized people in mind—but I ensure that the tools, strategies, and frameworks we build together actively challenge and reshape these structures.

  • Creating systems that empower rather than exclude – From dating apps to hiring platforms to decision-making tools, I focus on ensuring access, transparency, and ethical design rather than reinforcing hidden issues.

Decision-making is inherently a form of power—and when approached ethically, it becomes a force for personal agency, community support, and long-term impact.

Ethical & Pro-Social Systems Development

The way we design and interact with systems directly shapes our decisions, behaviors, and relationships. I believe in:

  • Designing decision-making systems that empower, not manipulate.

  • Challenging default structures that don’t serve people’s best interests.

  • Ensuring technology is used intentionally—enhancing clarity, not creating dependency.

  • Prioritizing informed decision-making over algorithmic nudging or reactive choices.

My approach integrates ethical decision science, ensuring that the systems we engage with—whether dating platforms, hiring processes, or leadership strategies—are structured with transparency and integrity.

Empowerment with Pro-Social Action

Better decision-making doesn’t just benefit individuals—it ripples outward to affect relationships, teams, communities, and industries. My approach balances personal empowerment with broader social responsibility, ensuring that success is aligned with integrity, inclusivity, and long-term impact.

  • Your choices should align with your personal goals and values while also considering their impact on others.

  • Success isn’t just about optimizing outcomes—it’s about making choices you can stand behind.

  • Ethical decision-making is a practice, not a one-time action. My goal is to help you build a framework for making better choices—not just for today, but for the future.

A Transparent, Trust-Based Approach

My work is built on trust, collaboration, and shared commitment—which means you’ll always know exactly what to expect when working together. I believe that decision-making should be a tool for empowerment, never a means of pressure or coercion.

If you’re looking for an approach to decision-making that is ethical, strategic, and fully in service of your success, let’s start a conversation.

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Let’s talk about where you are, what’s not working, and how to rethink your decision-making for the modern information age.

Explore More

The ROAR Framework – A structured system for transforming uncertainty into clarity.

The Core Ideas Behind Remake The Rules – Explore the foundational principles that shape this approach to decision-making, growth, and self-trust.

Meet Emily – the person behind Remake The Rules.