Online Dating

Dating Decision-Making

Rethink how you approach modern dating.
Modern dating isn’t what it used to be and neither are the tools or systems behind it.

You’re navigating an endless stream of options, algorithms deciding who you see, and social expectations pulling you in every direction. Add to that the constant pressure to optimize, and no wonder things feel off.

You’ve probably wondered:

• Why does dating feel more exhausting than exciting?

• Why do I keep second-guessing my choices?

• Am I making the right decision or just reacting to the moment?

It’s not just you. Dating today is a decision-making challenge.
And the way we’re taught to approach it doesn’t match the systems we’re actually using.

Modern Dating is Different

Now, dating means navigating choicetech, often one designed to maximize your engagement, not necessarily your success or satisfaction.

You’re also dealing with choice inflation: more options, more data, and more decision points than ever before. And without updated strategies, it’s easy to fall into familiar traps:

• The Endless Swiper – You keep searching for something better, but no option ever feels quite right.

• The Situationship Spiral – You invest time and energy into uncertain connections, hoping they’ll eventually lead somewhere.

• The Overthinker – You analyze every message, every vibe shift, and every possible outcome until you don’t know what you actually want.

• The Settler vs. The Chaser – You either stay in situations that don’t fully fit or chase connections that never materialize.

Modern dating isn’t just about who you meet.
It’s about how you filter, process, and decide.

Let’s Build a Better Dating Strategy

What if dating didn’t feel like a constant mental marathon?
What if you had clarity on what works for you and a decision-making strategy designed for how things actually work today?

This is where Remake The Rules comes in. Together, we’ll:

• Identify what’s working (and what’s not) in your dating patterns

• Recognize how technology, biases, and social influences shape your choices

• Develop a clear, confident strategy for choosing better matches and experiences

• Learn how to break free from exhausting patterns and build connections with intention

Dating can be fulfilling, aligned, and less stressful when your choices are designed to work for you, not against you.

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Let’s talk about where you are, what’s not working, and how to rethink your decision-making for the modern information age.