Is Remake The Rules For You?

You Know That Feeling?

That sense that you’re doing all the right things, but something still isn’t quite working?
You’re thinking things through, weighing the options, maybe even overanalyzing... and yet, clarity feels just out of reach.

Maybe you feel:

• Stuck in an endless loop of second-guessing

• Like you're drowning in too much information but still not sure what’s best

• Pressured by outside forces: expectations, trends, algorithms, or ‘shoulds’

• Like you’re spinning your wheels, making the same choices over and over and getting the same disappointing results

This isn’t about intelligence or effort. It’s about how we make decisions in a system that’s changed faster than our strategies have.

In a world shaped by choicetech (the technologies and systems that influence how we process options, gather information, and decide), our usual methods can break down. Add in choice inflation (the exhausting expansion of decisions we’re asked to make daily), and no wonder things feel stuck.

You don’t need more research, another pros-and-cons list, or a late-night Google spiral.
You need a better way to filter, focus, and choose.

How It Shows Up

This struggle manifests in different ways for different people:

Dating:

• You keep asking, “Is this person right for me?” but the answer never feels clear

• You feel exhausted by the cycle of dating apps and situationships

• You keep attracting the same types of people or making the same mistakes

In Business & Leadership:

• Your systems feel like they’re running you instead of serving you

• You’re stuck in decision fatigue, unsure which next step is actually best

• Every solution seems to create another layer of complexity instead of clarity

In Everyday Life:

• You have too many choices, and it’s making you hesitate rather than move forward

• You struggle to trust your own decisions, always wondering if you missed a better option

• You’re tired of being reactive, you want to be intentional, confident, and strategic