Decisions, Disruptions, and the Strange World We Live In
My Substack is where I break down the hidden forces shaping your decisions—whether in dating, leadership, or everyday life—and show you how to navigate them with intention and awareness. Expect sharp insights, thought-provoking questions, and a fresh take on the modern decision-making landscape. Plus, plenty of weird ideas and musings about our bizarre human-techno hybrid world—because let’s be real, the way we live, connect, and decide has never been stranger.
Check out my Substack to start thinking differently and get a taste of what you’ll find there below.
Dating Apps Can’t Solve Your Love Life
But They Can Help You Make Better Choices
Most people use dating apps with one goal in mind: finding the perfect match. But what if the real value of these apps isn’t in who they deliver, but in what they reveal? Instead of asking, ‘How do I get the best match?’ a more useful question might be, ‘How can I use this tool to refine my own choices and make better dating decisions?’
Many daters expect apps to solve dating instead of supporting better decision-making. The reality is that dating apps don’t create better partners; they create better access to potential partners. And what you do with that access determines your success.
Read more on Substack.
Dating Apps Can’t Solve Your Love Life
But They Can Help You Make Better Choices
Most people use dating apps with one goal in mind: finding the perfect match. But what if the real value of these apps isn’t in who they deliver, but in what they reveal? Instead of asking, ‘How do I get the best match?’ a more useful question might be, ‘How can I use this tool to refine my own choices and make better dating decisions?’
Many daters expect apps to solve dating instead of supporting better decision-making. The reality is that dating apps don’t create better partners; they create better access to potential partners. And what you do with that access determines your success.